I bet the stuff here it definitely opened your eyes. But I am willing to bet that I'm not the only one who here has taken anti supplication too far, to where I come off as a total asshole.
standing up and raising hand in front of the class :)
There is a very fine line between a confident, non supplicating guy and a jerk.
In fact, if you are confident about yourself and your attractiveness and your ability to get OTHER chicks when this one acts up... you end up NOT being a "jerk" because you can take her or leave her. I just IGNORE chicks. I will not argue with them because they can tell from my lack of interest that they are not high on my list anymore. They can CHOOSE if they want to get back on my good side or not.
I also find that the girls that you HAVE TO be a jerk to either have had problems with relationships in the past OR just like that type of guy. Either way, it is a poisonous way to live, HATING the chicks that you are fucking...
Avoid JERK-NESS as much as possible, but if you have to do it to get her in line... turn it up! :)
A lot of people forget that its OK to compliment women and be romantic, as long as you are doing it for the right reasons. I think everyone in here know what the right reasons are (OUTCOME OUTCOME OUTCOME), but if your like me, there might have been times when you missed out on some pussy because you were too set on coming across as a non-supplicator and not focusing enough on the real objective, whether that be getting them into bed or into the chapel.
The point is this... It's OK to be a nice, fun loving guy, just don't be a schmuck. If the only thing you have going for you is a non-supplicating attitude, don't expect to get the hordes of women you dream about.