OK, this part I have down. I can talk cooking, wine, fashion, decorating, emotions, whatever you want when it comes to talking with chicks. I have always been able to get in to the gal mode, the question is, how do you make the conversion? That there is the sum total of my problem, I am friends with some really chicks because I didn't know how to make the shift?
mrsex4unyc: It's VERY simple.
From the BEGINNING, you have to let them know that you are a sexual MAN!
Tell them stories about you fucking or you being attracted to some woman and wanting her or ANYTHING that has to do with YOU and SEX. She HAS to think about YOU HAVING SEX in order to understand and visualize what you are talking about. Now she knows that you are not some homo that wants to go shopping with her and act like a girl. However, you have not pressed HER for sex at all, you just told her that you like fucking HOT women :)
When the time comes to SHIFT the subjects, there is no problem BECAUSE "their girlfriend" (read: YOU) ALWAYS talks about sex, it's just that this time, SHE is being included instead of some chick that she doesn't know.
The PROBLEM occurs when a guy acts like a GIRL for three months then JUMPS OUT OF THE FUCKING CLOSET YELLING "SURPRIIIIIIIIIISE! I WANNA FUCK THE SHIT OUT OF YOU!"
I understand now that it is a mind-boggling experience for her to REALIZE that EVERYTHING SHE HAS SHARED WITH THIS GUY will be ENDING SOON! because it was ALL geared towards this day, this hour, this minute. She SUDDENLY has to make
a no-win choice:
A) don't submit to this man and give him my pussy, and watch him dump me
B) give this man my pussy and watch him walk anyway, because that's what this whole CHARADE of friendship was all about anyway
So, you are doing BOTH OF YOU a favor by announcing yourself as a sexual MAN ASAP!