identity_x: [after a lay] The next morning, I made her breakfast and we went for a walk. That might be a bit AFCish, I don't know. But my policy is to treat women right until they start bullshit (95% of the time). That way they know that they can't get away with anything, but stand to gain everything. I've yet to be dumped,LJBF'ed, or anything from doing this.
mrsex4unyc: this is not only NOT AFCish. IMO it is EXACTLY how to do it. R-E-W-A-R-D for good behavior and good performance and not breaking the rules. If SHE gives herself to you, you will make sure her life is made wonderful and beautiful :) All the more reason for her to STAY IN LINE and NOT get expelled from the GARDEN OF EDEN back out into the HARSH dating world!
Just be sure to elicit her values FIRST and determine what she likes, wants and needs so that you are not providing her with things that are not getting you any credit (like giving her flowers when all she likes is COMPLIMENTS).